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If you haven\u2019t watched Netflix\u2019s Madness<\/em>, starring Colman Domingo, you\u2019re missing out. While it\u2019s no longer in the Top 10, this limited series is worth your time. The show follows Muncie Daniels, a Black CNN correspondent framed for the murder of a white supremacist. Intriguing, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t spoil too much, but trust me, you\u2019ll want to check it out. While Colman Domingo delivers a captivating performance as always, it wasn\u2019t him who held my attention the most\u2014it was Gabrielle Graham as Kallie, Muncie\u2019s oldest daughter. She mesmerized me every time she appeared on screen. At first, I could not figure out why she kept drawing me in. Beautiful – yes. Believable actress – also, yes. But then it clicked: Kallie\u2019s character and complicated relationship with her dad reminded me so much of my own experience with my dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Complex Relationship Between Muncie and Kallie<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Muncie has two kids: a son with his current wife and Kallie, whom he had in college. The differences in the relationships are night and day. Muncie jokes with his son, offers him fatherly advice, and exudes warmth\u2014hallmarks of a solid bond. In contrast, we meet Kallie in a tense moment: Muncie barges into her life when everything is falling apart. He\u2019s shocked to see that she\u2019s thriving\u2014she owns a home and is renovating the unit next door. Like, duh, she\u2019s doing great despite her dad\u2019s lack of presence. I felt so proud of this fictional character for building her life on her own terms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Throughout the series, Muncie repeatedly drags Kallie into his shenanigans\u2014using her home renovation project as a safe house or having her break him out of handcuffs because someone\u2019s trying to kill him. I mean, what dad puts his kid in danger like this? Despite their strained relationship, Kallie always comes to his aid when he calls. One moment, toward the end of the series, particularly stood out: Muncie tries to have a heart-to-heart, but Kallie shuts him down. Gabrielle Graham\u2019s performance in that scene deserves an Emmy. It was a powerful portrayal of a daughter who no longer seeks apologies but demands changed behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why Kallie’s Story Resonates<\/p>\n\n\n\n

From what the show hints, Muncie wasn\u2019t a deadbeat father. He likely showed up for milestones, sent financial support, and called on birthdays\u2014but he wasn\u2019t there for the moments that mattered most. Not being there for her during her formative years created a rift that never healed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kallie\u2019s story reminded me of my own experience with my dad. Like her, I had a father who showed up when it suited him. I ate it up every time, only to feel the emptiness afterward. It\u2019s like getting a taste of what a real father-daughter relationship could be but never the full experience. I think Kallie and I can agree that we have dads who weren\u2019t quite ready for the responsibility of fatherhood when they had us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a joke on social media: \u201cIf your dad is bald, you\u2019re spoiled.\u201d Well, both Kallie and I had dads with hair\u2014if that tells you anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finding Peace in Imperfect Relationships<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My dad never hit me up while being framed for murder (thankfully), but our relationship mirrored Kallie and Muncie\u2019s in its incompleteness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I used to act like it didn\u2019t affect me. By all accounts, I was thriving. But two things can be true: you can be an amazing, accomplished woman and still have \u201cdaddy issues.\u201d In college, I realized it was unhealthy to expect my dad to change. He is who he is, and I doubt he ever thought about how his actions\u2014or inactions\u2014affected me. Friends would often say, \u201cYour dad is so cool\u201d or \u201cHe\u2019s hilarious.\u201d And while those are great qualities for a friend, they don\u2019t make for a reliable father. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong; I\u2019m still working through the impact of my relationship with my dad. (Cue toxic situationships!) But life improved when I started accepting our relationship for what it is. Now, I joke that my dad is my homeboy. Perfect for a fun time\u2014not so much for major life decisions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Message to Girls Who Keep Pushing<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you haven\u2019t quite reached the point where you\u2019re ready to accept that your dad is a far cry away from winning Father of the Year, that’s okay. I\u2019m not saying give up hope because people can change, but don\u2019t let his inaction keep you from reaching your goals. Focus on the people who have continuously shown up for you and remind yourself of all things big and small that you have accomplished thus far. At some point you have to stop blaming the lack of a father for where you are and put the focus on yourself. This world is yours for the taking if you believe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember, your success isn\u2019t tied to someone else\u2019s failures. Look at people like Barack Obama, Halle Berry, Mariah Carey, and Angelina Jolie\u2014all raised by single mothers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your life is your own. Your greatness does not absolve your dad of his shortcomings, but your life is much more than someone else\u2019s failures. Your dad may have been the producer, but you, my Girl, are the star of your movie. (Shout out to my girl Haley for the wise words!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To all the girls out there, especially the eldest daughters who\u2019ve built incredible lives despite an imperfect father figure: you are amazing! You\u2019ve defied the statistics and proven the doubters wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pat yourself on the back and keep living a full, beautiful life. You deserve every bit of joy and success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Additionally, if you have experiences that resonate with Kallie’s story, I would love for you to share below. If you enjoyed this post, please consider sharing it with your friends and subscribing to my blog for more updates. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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